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Bereavement Leaflet
Pet Bereavement
Little has been known about pet bereavement until recently and therefore it is not surprising that so many people find the pain and confusion of their loss so disturbing. This is often made worse by the total lack of understanding from those who believe the loss means nothing and the fact that we live in a society where thinking or speaking about death is passionately avoided.
The grief felt by the loss of a pet is unique. The bonding between owner and pet often involves a more private and personal side of our nature than we would entrust to a human. Their dependency upon us leads to our relying heavily on their need. When eventually they die, as they must, the shock and grief becomes a very personal affair that we may be unable to share with others.
The ritual of cremation or burial can be an important part of the healing process and acceptance of your loss. It is therefore important that you are sure your wishes are carried out correctly and with dignity and in this the members of our Association are able to help.
The APPCC has worked with Jane Matthews, author of Losing a Pet, to produce a bereavement leaflet to help owners affected by the loss of their pet. We have also had support from several experienced pet bereavement counsellors and the nationwide Pet Bereavement Support Service run by SCAS. Copies are available through APPCC members, pet bereavement counsellors and veterinary surgeries throughout the UK. Alternatively you can download the leaflet HERE
PBSS
The Pet Bereavement Support Service (PBSS) is dedicated to offering support and understanding to bereaved pet owners through a national network of trained volunteer telephone and email befrienders, all of whom are ready to help. All calls and emails are treated confidentially.
The service is run by The Blue Cross in conjunction with SCAS (The Society for Companion Animal Studies). It is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and adopts its code of ethics. The service is also a member of the Telephone Helpline Association, and is supported by the British Small Animal Veterinary Association.
